For years I've said I'd come undone, but what I've learned is when we lose a loved one for many it begins a metamorphosis. Yes we do come unglued, but then God steps in to glue us back together and make us better than we were before. Fear has a way of blocking God from our vision, but God has a way of shinning through regardless. When he wants our attention He WILL get it! I trust God more now than ever and I now know that whatever fear I have He will see me through. I may very well fall apart at the seams, but he will be there to pick me up, dust me off and carry me through. And you know what? He's ready to do the very same for you. All you have to do is whisper his name. Even if that whisper is just in your heart or head - He will answer.